31.01.2009 | 除非莫為

我想要講嘅係, 若要人不知, 除非己莫為.. 唔好以為人哋見唔到就可以作個估仔嚟到瞞天過海, 實不知人哋一早已經識穿謊言, 唔出聲並唔代表仍然蒙在鼓裡, 其實係唔想將事情搞大, 令到關係惡劣啫.. 有咩事需要隱瞞啊, 咁樣做只會加深人哋嘅誤會, 越係往壞嗰方面去諗咋喎, 好唔健康好過份囉.. 唔好話係咩善意嘅謊言, 呢個回應好行囉.. 其實整見事睇落真係有啲好曖昧嘅事情正在發生, 所以要刻意隱瞞.. 咁樣做係叫做講大話, 叫做出賣, 叫做欺騙..

我至憎人講大話呃我!!「人在做, 天在看」-- 荷媽, 《家好月圓》what i wanted to say is, if you do not want people to know what you have done, then do not do that at first.. do not assume that things are covered up with the beautiful story you have created, just because you think people did not see what was happening, never expected that the lie have actually been uncovered.. keeping the silence does not mean people is still unaware, the fact is actually that people do not wish to blow things up and worsen the relationship at last.. what is there to hide and to lie about?? such a deed shall only add on to the misunderstandings, and make people think more about the vices, really unhealthy and too much of doing so.. do not say that it is some kind of white lies or for the good sake, that is just some general response.. afterall when the whole thing is seen clearly inside out, something fishy has just been happening, and therefore that intentional hide.. don't you think this kind of act is just equal to telling lies, betraying and cheating??

i hate liars!! "when you are doing, heaven is watching" -- Ho Mah, The Moonlight Resonance