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14.01.2009 | 一日之間

一日之間睇清楚一個人, 日久見人心, 人前人後不同人..

一日之間睇清楚一個人, 拐彎抹角, 講一套做一套..

一日之間睇清楚一個人, 撩事鬥非, 推卸責任, 欺善怕惡, 奉上踩下..

一日之間睇清楚一個人, 強勢壓迫, 不明究竟, 不通情不達理..

醒覺危機四伏, 必需行事謹慎, 為自己披上甲衣..in just a day, learnt that a person is actually behaving differently in front of different people, the more you deal with the more you find problems with..

in just a day, learnt that a person is actually beating around the bush, say one thing but did something else different..

in just a day, learnt that a person is actually creating hoax, pushing away responsibility and accountability, flattering the stronger but belittling the weaker..

in just a day, learnt that a person is actually pushing with supreme power, not understanding, not reasonable and not empathetic..

realised that threats are everywhere, must be well-prepared with an amour stay vigilant..
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22 comments:

  1. Much more to learn my buddy. Just keep your eyes open.

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  2. hej! [SK]...people change for the sake of survival and have million characters...

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  3. Haiyoh, I thought you talking about my HKG boss. He beats around bushes and jungles till ular comes out. Then he killed the snakes & blamed others for murder. No wonder TVB make so many series from their real life events. I have learnt to work smart with HKG bosses! There is no free lunch boy...

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  4. as long as we ' walk straight, stand straight' then who cares about them?

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  5. 感同身受!雖然我不是一日之間發覺的。。。 好‘噁啃’!!

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  6. haiz~ now only u realise the reality of the office politic?!? Well, i can teach u some technique to protect urself :)

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  7. K|E|E|N|Y|E|E:
    yeah buddy, still a lot more to go and a lot more to learn.. and yesterday was just an eye opener.. my eyes too small to kept opened all the while hehe :p

    [danial][ma]:
    yeah, i understand.. that's Darwin's theory, only the one who changes and adapts can survive through.. :)

    Twilight Zone:
    oooh, beware your HKG bosses came here to read this!! haha :) yeah, the more you experienced the more you learn, and a long way to go for me..

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  8. Danny:
    that is the ideal situation, if you are left alone.. but the real situation is only "walk straight and stand straight" is not enough, 人在江湖身不由己 ah, friend..

    csws:
    完全明白, 一日之間其實只是開始, 別後還有好長的日子喔!! 所以人會隨著歲月和經驗的累積而有所改變, 要生存就要改變.. :)

    ~LeuMas~:
    haha, what makes you think that i was talking about office politics leh?? anyway, i really don't mind getting advices from you just in case.. hehe :p

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  9. haha~ then u have to call me sifu lo :P

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  10. 人心莫測阿~
    有些人就是因為這樣而爬得很高~
    真卑鄙!
    週遭往往都埋伏著很多這樣的人
    所以凡事要小心哦~

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  11. Haha, eyes opener..a good 1. Anyhow, sometimes smaller eyes would be better so that you won't over-look something. :)

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  12. ~LeuMas~:
    i give face only call you "sifu", if not give face i call you "lou swee", hahaha :p

    小崇胖胖:
    世界上甚麼人都有, 我其實蠻鄙視那種人.. 不過只要河水不犯井水, 我還是可以自掃門前雪的.. 所以說做人不要太天真, 事實還是事實, 行事要謹慎囉.. 共勉之~~

    K|E|E|N|Y|E|E:
    yeah that was really a good eye opener.. but do you think smaller eye is better because might over-look?? depend whether those are good things or bad things actually.. anyway eyes must always be opened and vigilant :)

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  13. wow... who makes you such deep feeling!? hmm... who is that??? i really wonder.... oh well, no matter what he/she still a human :)

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  14. 恩恩..各式各樣的人都有,人不犯我我不犯人
    天真是給小朋友的禮物
    心狠手辣是大人的手段
    除了謹慎還要有點自私

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  15. 傑士:
    haha, no laa, just some thoughts after those eye-opener acts!! well, not he or not she, it's actually THEY, hahaha :p

    小崇胖胖:
    所以有一句話我覺得是永遠都對, 永遠都實用.. 那就是「適者生存」!!

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  16. 把自己的基础打好然后站稳,吃了亏也无所谓就当作自己不够强。你知道吗,跟小人对着干也是种乐趣。输了让我成长,赢了哪满足感超爽。哈哈 别气馁,要争气。:)

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  17. in other words, in one day, you have grown up a little more :)

    often it is jus sandiwara

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  18. yee:
    哈哈, 現在還沒有到那個你爭我鬥的階段, 不過聽你一番分析, 似乎有道理哦, 可以參考參考!! 嘿嘿.. :)

    Bengbeng:
    i won't say i've grown up a little, just being eye-opened and realised something that i've always try not to believe.. :)

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  19. Sk & 小崇: 要涉身事外,恐怕不易,人在江湖身不由己. 只有學好一身"功夫"

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  20. tagnan:
    沒有錯!! 人在江湖是很難置身事外的, 所以一身功夫是重要, 而且要深懂"適者生存"這個永恆的道理..

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  21. 贊同拉~適者生存
    功夫我好像沒什麼
    什麼時候要過兩招阿~

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  22. 小崇胖胖:
    沒有喇, 我哪裡來的功夫?? 如果是一身武功高強, 我想我現在應該有更厲害的成績囉.. 哈哈!!

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