一日之間睇清楚一個人, 拐彎抹角, 講一套做一套..
一日之間睇清楚一個人, 撩事鬥非, 推卸責任, 欺善怕惡, 奉上踩下..
一日之間睇清楚一個人, 強勢壓迫, 不明究竟, 不通情不達理..
醒覺危機四伏, 必需行事謹慎, 為自己披上甲衣..
in just a day, learnt that a person is actually behaving differently in front of different people, the more you deal with the more you find problems with..in just a day, learnt that a person is actually beating around the bush, say one thing but did something else different..
in just a day, learnt that a person is actually creating hoax, pushing away responsibility and accountability, flattering the stronger but belittling the weaker..
in just a day, learnt that a person is actually pushing with supreme power, not understanding, not reasonable and not empathetic..
realised that threats are everywhere, must be well-prepared with an amour stay vigilant..
Much more to learn my buddy. Just keep your eyes open.
ReplyDeletehej! [SK]...people change for the sake of survival and have million characters...
ReplyDeleteHaiyoh, I thought you talking about my HKG boss. He beats around bushes and jungles till ular comes out. Then he killed the snakes & blamed others for murder. No wonder TVB make so many series from their real life events. I have learnt to work smart with HKG bosses! There is no free lunch boy...
ReplyDeleteas long as we ' walk straight, stand straight' then who cares about them?
ReplyDelete感同身受！雖然我不是一日之間發覺的。。。 好‘噁啃’！！
ReplyDeletehaiz~ now only u realise the reality of the office politic?!? Well, i can teach u some technique to protect urself :)
ReplyDeleteK|E|E|N|Y|E|E:
ReplyDeleteyeah buddy, still a lot more to go and a lot more to learn.. and yesterday was just an eye opener.. my eyes too small to kept opened all the while hehe :p
[danial][ma]:
yeah, i understand.. that's Darwin's theory, only the one who changes and adapts can survive through.. :)
Twilight Zone:
oooh, beware your HKG bosses came here to read this!! haha :) yeah, the more you experienced the more you learn, and a long way to go for me..
Danny:
ReplyDeletethat is the ideal situation, if you are left alone.. but the real situation is only "walk straight and stand straight" is not enough, 人在江湖身不由己 ah, friend..
csws:
完全明白, 一日之間其實只是開始, 別後還有好長的日子喔!! 所以人會隨著歲月和經驗的累積而有所改變, 要生存就要改變.. :)
~LeuMas~:
haha, what makes you think that i was talking about office politics leh?? anyway, i really don't mind getting advices from you just in case.. hehe :p
haha~ then u have to call me sifu lo :P
ReplyDelete人心莫測阿~
ReplyDelete有些人就是因為這樣而爬得很高~
真卑鄙!
週遭往往都埋伏著很多這樣的人
所以凡事要小心哦~
Haha, eyes opener..a good 1. Anyhow, sometimes smaller eyes would be better so that you won't over-look something. :)
ReplyDelete~LeuMas~:
ReplyDeletei give face only call you "sifu", if not give face i call you "lou swee", hahaha :p
小崇胖胖:
世界上甚麼人都有, 我其實蠻鄙視那種人.. 不過只要河水不犯井水, 我還是可以自掃門前雪的.. 所以說做人不要太天真, 事實還是事實, 行事要謹慎囉.. 共勉之~~
K|E|E|N|Y|E|E:
yeah that was really a good eye opener.. but do you think smaller eye is better because might over-look?? depend whether those are good things or bad things actually.. anyway eyes must always be opened and vigilant :)
wow... who makes you such deep feeling!? hmm... who is that??? i really wonder.... oh well, no matter what he/she still a human :)
ReplyDelete恩恩..各式各樣的人都有,人不犯我我不犯人
ReplyDelete天真是給小朋友的禮物
心狠手辣是大人的手段
除了謹慎還要有點自私
傑士:
ReplyDeletehaha, no laa, just some thoughts after those eye-opener acts!! well, not he or not she, it's actually THEY, hahaha :p
小崇胖胖:
所以有一句話我覺得是永遠都對, 永遠都實用.. 那就是「適者生存」!!
把自己的基础打好然后站稳，吃了亏也无所谓就当作自己不够强。你知道吗，跟小人对着干也是种乐趣。输了让我成长，赢了哪满足感超爽。哈哈 别气馁，要争气。:)
ReplyDeletein other words, in one day, you have grown up a little more :)
ReplyDeleteoften it is jus sandiwara
yee:
ReplyDelete哈哈, 現在還沒有到那個你爭我鬥的階段, 不過聽你一番分析, 似乎有道理哦, 可以參考參考!! 嘿嘿.. :)
Bengbeng:
i won't say i've grown up a little, just being eye-opened and realised something that i've always try not to believe.. :)
Sk & 小崇: 要涉身事外，恐怕不易，人在江湖身不由己. 只有學好一身"功夫"
ReplyDeletetagnan:
ReplyDelete沒有錯!! 人在江湖是很難置身事外的, 所以一身功夫是重要, 而且要深懂"適者生存"這個永恆的道理..
贊同拉~適者生存
ReplyDelete功夫我好像沒什麼
什麼時候要過兩招阿~
小崇胖胖:
ReplyDelete沒有喇, 我哪裡來的功夫?? 如果是一身武功高強, 我想我現在應該有更厲害的成績囉.. 哈哈!!