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04.11.2008 | 換個角度

承蒙各位朋友嘅關心, 可能我之前篇嘢寫得太過灰, 搞到有個朋友用「唔係感性, 係嚴重」嚟形容我嘅心情, 幾乎擔心死佢.. 不過其實可以心平氣和咁坐喺度寫嘢, 只係一種(自己選擇嘅)抒發思緒嘅方式, 我很好亦都很理智, 唔駛擔心有咩不祥事件即將發生於我身上{-_-}".. 困擾咗大家, 唔好意思..

唔少朋友睇過我嘅blog之後, 都畀咗好多好誠懇好寶貴嘅意見我, 雖然佢哋可能唔知發生咩事, 不過感覺真係放錢入我袋, 好感激好感動.. 亦都因為咁樣, 我嘗試換個角度去睇件事, 忽然間靈光一閃, 好似睇透咗好多嘢咁.. 頭上烏雲算係逐漸散開, 眼前雖然未見到雨過天晴, 不過至少唔再係狂風暴雨.. 凡是有正負兩面, 事情可能未必如你想像中咁壞, 凡事唔好太過執著, 一切順其自然嘅話, 內心會舒服好多..

期待雨後彩虹與陽光嘅來臨..millions of thanks to friends out there that showed concern, perhaps it was too depressed the way i wrote my previous entries, causing one good old friend described me as "not emotional, but serious" and that really made her worry.. anyway, i was sitting down calmly and peacefully writting the entries, it's just a channel (that i have chosen myself) for me to express my feelings, i am fine and very rational, nothing disastrous that is going to happen on me {-_-}".. if i've bothered anyone of you, really feel bad for that..

quite a number of friends read my blog and gave me very sincere and very precious pieces of advice.. they might not know exactly what has happened to me, but frankly i must admit they are indeed very witty and enlightening advices, i'm absolutely grateful to that.. and because of that, i start to see things in a different angle, from a different perspective.. and out of a sudden, i was like enlightened and things seems a lot more optimistic than i thought.. dark clouds over me are starting to clear, although i still have not see the sunshine coming, at least it's not storm anymore.. there are always the negative and positive sides of a thing, it actually might not be as bad as you thought, so just take things easy and not to think too much.. let the nature takes it course, and by this you should feel better instead..

hoping to see rainbow and sunshine after the storm..
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18 comments:

  1. ya i understand....
    same as me... sometime i just like to write it down, so i dont have to keep it inside of me. is a kind of relieve for me.

    time will clear the cloud and bring you back to the sunshine land once more... :D cheers...

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  2. I found this poem on the internet. Would like to share it with you & everyone here :)

    Light In The Storm
    Author:Unknown

    When the storms of life are raging,
    and the clouds are all around,
    and you think your all alone,
    just take a look around.

    When there is no one there to talk to
    and you're feeling sad and blue
    and you think no one will listen,
    I (we) will be the light in the storm for you.

    Even though we've never met,
    or seen each other's smiles,
    Our friendship is from the heart, not sight,
    And it can span the miles.

    We all are one winged angels,
    alone it is impossible to fly,
    But if we embrace each other,
    we can span the sky.

    The next time your feeling lonely,
    and the storms are beating you down,
    just come online and find me (us),
    and I (we) will take away your frown.

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  3. anon: I dont want to become a one winged angels... i want to become a sunshine.... hur hur :P

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  4. Hi William H: May ur wish come true - as in the two-legged sunshine, right? & ain't it good to know SK is "seeing the light"? Goodnight!(1:30 am already Down Under)

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  5. SK, 每个人都会有特别难过,特别伤心的时刻。我也知道叫你不要去想的话是有点不太可能。不过你要记得,再难再苦再不如意的都会过去。

    敞开心房,会好过来的!

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  6. william h:
    yeah, this is a channel to express yourself whatever you think you do not want to keep it inside.. well, relief or not, but it's still depend on whether you can take it easy or not, agree??

    anon:
    wow, that is a beautiful poem about friendship and encouragement.. thanks, i love that!! hope i'm seeing the light, the sunlight soon, haha :p

    edward:
    謝謝關心.. 現在儘可能就是換個角度去看待事情, 想還是會想, 只不過應該往積極往好那方面來想吧.. 希望你也能夠敞開心房, 天天開心過活吧!! :)

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  7. Thanks for dropping by :) HAve a beautiful week ahead!

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  8. sk: ya... agree... is all depend on ourself... fooling around with animals also can open your mind... and i know the place.. haha :P

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  9. Dude, life has ups and downs... i'm glad that u r seeing the bright sunlight right now... btw, r u feeling more stronger after the stormy life...

    Sorry i have not had the time to read what actually had happened... anyway, take good care of yourself eh! :-)

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  10. hej! {sk}...what a life...sometimes gloomy, sometimes sunny...the most important thing that we must celebrate life...;-)

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  11. leonardo:
    thanks for dropping by too.. you have a great week ahead too!!

    william h:
    well, that's cool you know where and what to do to open up your mind.. :p

    TZ:
    no problem, thanks for dropping by instead.. yeah, hoping to see the bright happy sunshine as soon as possible.. :)

    [danial][ma]:
    yeah, life is just like weather isn't it.. forever changing and quite unpredictable.. like you say, just love life, that's it.. :)

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  12. i am great u r in a more better mood compare to the last few days. as i always said to myself when i feel down - TOMORROW MIGHT NOT BE A BETTER DAY, BUT A BETTER TOMORROW WILL DEFINITELY COME TO YOU SOONEST.

    take it easy....!

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  13. 几天没来,回来后发现我的朋友有烦恼了!不管你所谓的“嗰件事”是什么事,希望你快点看开点,找到解决的方法。每个人都有这样的时候啦,不用太过烦恼。想想事情去到最坏会有什么结果,那你就很快可以找到出路。

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  14. E.T:
    thanks, although that quote is something very general but it's indeed very meaningful :p Yeah, just gotta see the light, no matter how good or bad it might turn up to be, just gotta take it easy..

    慧沁:
    謝謝關心, 一回來就看到失魂落魄的我, 有沒有嚇到?? 哈哈.. 現在心情好多了, 真的要往另外一方面來看待事情.. 接受最壞結果, 但同時也希望最好結果吧..

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  15. at last SK is back writing his blogs again... it's nice to see you back on your feet. Friends around you are your angels.. if you need anyone of us jus call upon any angels that is near you. you will feel better....

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  16. hey, i'm always writing my blog leh, can't you notice a fresh new blog for every day?? hehe..

    yeah, thanks for being one of the angels anyway, i'm feeling better now, if not merry at least not depressed.. :)

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  17. 嘿嘿, 尚好尚好~~

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