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28.04.2008 | 朋友, 你好..

記得個幾月前, 同一位朋友因為某些(唔清楚乜嘢)原因而變得疏遠.. 識佢其實唔係好耐, 不過之前我哋真係好friend, 感情很好架.. 之後就一直都覺得好唔開心, 曾經諗過算數啦, 可能人哋已經唔like我啦, 我都無謂強求啦.. 患得患失之際, 諗起同事JC都有同我傾訴同樣遭遇, 係放唔低友誼, 唔想失去一位好朋友吖嘛.. 頭先終於「痛定思痛」拎起電話打畀佢, 其實當時個心真係震緊架囉, 哈哈..

傾咗好耐都講咗好多嘢, 其實係因為我做咗啲好幼稚嘅嘢令到佢受唔落, 而我自己得罪人又唔知.. 加上我自己又係衰嘅, 成日神經質諗埋一邊, 令佢覺得我好自私兼有啲反感.. anyway, 其實呢位朋友都算好喇, 佢可以唔理我, 不過卻願意語氣心長咁同我分析佢嘅感受同睇法, 一輪道理之後, 我覺得自己真係錯晒囉, 個心當時覺得好內疚.. 之前有任何我唔啱嘅嘢, 我喺度講聲對唔住; 以後有任何我唔啱嘅嘢, 請即管坦然開聲..

覺得呢位朋友大人有大量唔去計較, 其實一路都係我以小人之心度君子之腹啫.. 從佢身上真係學識咗好多處世待人嘅嘢, 今日一談佢又再次令我醒悟喇.. 我開始更加珍惜同佢嘅呢份友誼, 畢竟朋友得來不易啊, 希望我嘅所作所為冇影響到呢份友誼啦..

朋友, 睇過呢篇post之後, 相信你應該感受到我嘅立場.. 我係真心希望友誼永固架, 唔奢望你發表任何意見, 不過希望你都有同樣諗法, 唔好等我一廂情願, 好嗎?? 勾個手指尾吖~~
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13 comments:

  1. 哇,公开道歉 wor... 佢唔会铁石心肠唔騷你嘅!

    勾过手指尾,以后就一份饭两人吃;一条裤两份穿!

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  2. 未知架, 接受道歉同埋維持一段友誼係兩回事, 唯有聽天由命囉.. 咁飯可以share share食, 條褲我就覺得我哋size唔同喇.. 哈哈!!

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  3. 那么有诚意,你的朋友肯定成为你人生中最CLOSE的朋友.因为经得起时间考验的友情,先至可以千锤百炼,稳如泰山,不能轻于鸿毛,坚如磐石,情比金坚,金石良缘,恭喜恭喜!!

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  4. fookong - 似振興多啲喎 大佬!

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  5. edward 仔:是的,是的,我会检讨.

    sk 佬:sorry, 我过态啦.如有得罪之处,还望原谅.

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  6. fookong:
    我一向對朋友都係好真好有誠意架啦, 唔出奇囉.. 係唔係最close嘅朋友就唔係我單方面斷定嘅.. 不過你講啲咩「情比金堅,金石良缘」, 好似講到我哋有啲咩咁.. 我哋係清白架, 哈哈~~

    edward:
    係囉, 佢似贈興多啲..

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  7. SK & EDWARD仔:
    无可否认,是。。。。我是赠兴多D。。。但是,我都道歉了,难道你地要我以死谢罪吗?
    你地真是好残忍啊!
    SK 佬:
    不过,尽管如何,我“坚信”你地无野,所以,我好“坚定”甘讲,你地的友情是可以经得起风吹雨打同埋时间考验咔。我少少的推波助澜,甘小人的野,肯定撼唔低你地的友情。
    所以,祝福你啦!
    我要返工,投入今日的战场,不讲啦,祝工作愉快啦。

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  8. 可能你地既緣已經去到盡頭左啦 節哀順便啦 無緣既朋友會係過路客 =) 吾使甘執著既


    路過...

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  9. fookong:
    叫我SK咪好啦, 做乜要格硬撞個「佬」字喺後邊啫?? 多謝你對我哋咁有信心, 不過我都唔敢諗得太多啦, 順其自然囉..

    lcfu:
    多謝路過發表中肯意見.. 可能係我自己過於執著囉, 不過至少我而家已經表明立場, 可以做嘅我都做晒喇, 就係睇人哋點諗囉..

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  10. wah! so serious one..... you have done what you need to do, you are very brave leh. Even if your friend is not going to forgive you, but you will feel better since you have clarify with him.

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  11. yeah, that is what i think also.. anyway, things are not as serious and complicated as you thought laa..

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  12. i think u got to take it easy loh... i am sure ur friend dont mean to totally dont contact u, is ur one sided thinking only. times will heal the wounds....

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  13. e.t:
    thanks!! yeah maybe, perhaps i've been too sensitive and over-care about nothing lor.. should always communicate well with him anyway, hehe.. yes, whatever happened is for a reason behind, and time is a good fading agent (also a good enhancement agent, depends)..

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