10.12.2013 | 馬騮家族

[Volume 8 Issue 12, #1835]
好耐都唔見fing-fing喇, 大家有冇掛住佢先?? 咦, 大家睇下fing-fing有新朋友噃.. 係呀, 爸爸見佢最近都好乖好聽話, 所以就買咗隻寵物玩具俾佢, 等佢有個伴吖嘛.. 大家都係馬騮仔, 而且呢隻玩具馬騮都唔係名不經傳喎, 所以爸爸相信佢哋應該可以夾得嚟嘅.. 爸爸話喎, 雖然julius係細細一件玩具, 但係fing-fing都應該好好珍惜佢㗎.. 千其唔好似得家下啲小朋友咁, 因為父母有能力給予富裕嘅物質享受, 就以為一切得來很易, 一切都係必然, 所以就唔會去珍惜所擁有嘅一切, 反而只會掛住埋怨父母所給嘅不足!! 而做人父母者, 亦都唔應該寵壞自己嘅孩子, 應該適當調教說道理, 要俾佢哋知道盤中餐係粒粒皆辛苦, 要俾佢哋知道咩係啱咩係唔啱.. 呵呵, 唔好意思呀大家, 爸爸見到冇啲嬌生慣養嘅小朋友, 突然有感而發啫.. 冇事冇事, 因為fing-fing同julius都係好孩子, 所以爸爸就帶咗佢哋兩個齊齊去日本大阪, 依家正在享受假期哦, 好快就會返嚟同大家再次見面喇~~ :p
it's been a long time we've not seen fing-fing, do you miss him?? hey look, fing-fing has got a new friend!! yeah, daddy thinks fing-fing has been a very good boy lately, so he bought a toy to keep fing-fing company.. both of them are monkeys, furthermore this toy monkey is not just any tom-dick-harry, so daddy believes they can get along very well.. daddy says, even though julius is just a small piece of toy, fing-fing should also appreciate it and be thankful.. do not behave like many kids nowadays, because they are always given the best materialistic lives by their parents, they are taking things for granted and thought everything comes easy, hence never appreciate but always complain about what is not good enough.. and as parents, don't spoil the kids, rather always give appropriate guidance and advices, let the kids know what they get may not come easy, let them know what are the wrongs and what are the rights.. hehehe, sorry, daddy saw some really misbehaved kids and kind of ranted a bit.. okay okay, no big deal, since both fing-fing and julius are good boys, hence daddy brought both of them to Osaka together, now enjoying our holidays and shall be back to see everyone here again very soon~~ :p

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  1. Good morning SK and everyone, enjoy your holiday at Osaka ya...

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  2. I spanked my babies every day. :p Because they are naughty.

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  3. I agreed most parents will spoil their kids somehow...I tend to do this as well. After all they are our little ones. :D

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  4. But when they screw up I am so going to whack them. Haha :D I am quite ganas when I am disciplining them.

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    1. Aiyo! So ganas father!! If SK spanks his monkey, it might turn into raging Gorilla!

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    2. I always believe spanking or hitting a child to discipline them do not yield the desired results. There are much better ways to educate and discipline them. Just my opinion la...

      But then again, I don't know much. I have only one child. ;)

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    3. Not all child listen to warning again and again. At times when verbal warning wont do anymore have to wack wack.

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    4. But then, you can say that caning also doesn't work when you had to spank and cane over and over again?

      So the cycle repeat?

      Marah, cane, senyap then buat salah, cane again. Repeat.

      I'm actually OK la with caning. At school I told the teachers not to spare the rod to my son also.

      But for little kids? Too small to reason? What purpose does it serve? To keep them quiet? Do they understand why you cane them? Or buat salah saja, cane come out? Cannot la...

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    5. I try not to cane when the kids have reached 7 years old and above. I canned them when they were much younger. Now, I try to reason out with them. I agree with SK, we cannot spoil the kids too much, we have to discipline them with love and make them a grateful person.

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  5. Morning!!! Morning!!! Everyone and SK!!! Happy Tuesday!!! =]

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    1. Lots of spoiled kid nowadays la!!! Firstly, I'm one of those spoiled child too!!! Very stubborn and self center!!! =[

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    2. Since I've three nieces and three nephews at home, which I can comment a lot about how kids nowadays react!!! They've been spoiled too much always take for granted, don't want to do anything, including cleaning themselves like clean after done with their big business cause kids around his age, suppose to do it themselves already..

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    3. Talking about travel overseas, they also like to show off where they been to others, felt so scheme every time when they said so, because those people they show off to have been much more places than them!!! =.=!!!

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    4. Lots of stories from them la, like fell down a bit, then said leg broken, can't walk anymore, actually can't even see any single wound there lo!!! =.=!!!

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    5. But no matter how, I still love them but not spoiled them, hehe!!! =]

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    6. Your nieces and nephews are lucky got nice aunty to pamper them. :)

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  6. Enjoy your holiday :)
    Jealous nyer..

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    1. Both Fing's must be real lucky, to be able to come with you..Sit aeroplane, live in nice hotel, go jalan jalan, wah... Better than being human leh.. Kakaka..

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    2. By the way, Julius looks weird. Not as cute as Fing, hehe..
      He looks a bit scary too ;)

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  7. Osaka, Here SK comes!!! Enjoy yourself, fren!!

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  8. Wheeeeeeeeee! Two monkeys and their Daddy-O in Osaka! Have fun guys! So, how long will we be missing you guys?

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  9. Good Afternoon bloggers! What a monkey day! I know who is the monkey's daddy but where is the MUMMY???

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    1. For SK to know, and for you to find out :)

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    2. Monkey mommy not Kamala meh? I thought Kamala your gad daughter bethroth to Ah Boy since they were a baby. :p

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  10. Wow, holidaying in Osaka? Have a wonderful time there! I might be going to Osaka too next year. Do take lots of pictures!

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    1. Enjoy yourself too Fing-Fing and Julius! Your daddy is so kind to bring both of you along. Do you fit in his backpack or in his luggage?

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    2. Yes, as parents we used to buy stuff for our kids. Sometimes we pamper them too much. But it's good to give as a treat for being good.

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  11. Wow nice! Holiday in Osaka! I'm sure Fing Fing and Julius are enjoying themselves to the max! Have a wonderful trip!

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  12. So syiok la Fing & Fing and Julius get to follow the daddy holidaying in Osaka. How come Daddy SK don't want to bring Auntie Lina also? Auntie looks with envy only! LOL

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  13. Good afternoon SK and everybody!
    Yea, really long time no see fing fing the monkey! Of course I miss him! And so nice, you got him a new pal! Should have done that earlier ma! Hehe~
    But I still prefer fing fing than the new friend, but of course both also cute la!

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    1. But why din't you get something almost same size with fing fing? Hehe, see this new friend is so much smaller than fing fing! Later fing fing bully him ar!! xD
      But I think fing fing is not that bad la right? Sure they can 相亲相爱 one... ^^

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    2. Now that you got fing fing a new friend, so you will be more lonely I guess? I mean they will play together more often and might neglect their owner wo.... xD
      So when are you going to find yourself a partner ar?? *blek*

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    3. Yea, being a parent is sure no easy task these days. I see many spoil kids these days, but I think cannot just blame the parents, of course parents still have to bear most of the responsibility in this case, just that there're just so many seductions these days!! And sometimes it's the peer pressure, hence kids always ask for things from their parents.
      Haih, I think I'll have a hard time educating Aden in the future!! :0

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    4. And wow, you're at Osaka now? Surprise for us? Hehe, anyway enjoy your holidays!! fing fing and julius are indeed very lucky 'kids'! Can travel so far at this young age already =)

      Yes, see you soon!

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  14. lol, this monkey~ my brother also got 1~ XD

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  15. Got baby liao kah? You the father lah? :D

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    1. Oh? You in Japan again? Wahhhhhh....sooooo rich! Go to Japan so many times and the things there so expensive! Last trip, sent me green tea Kit Kat, this trip, you you buy for me?

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    2. Flying, no need to bring them lah. Better save baggage space to buy presents for me... Hehehehehe!!!!

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    3. Wah, you received so many present? Nice!!! =]

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  16. 嘩,好羡慕哦!連馬騮仔都有得去旅行!

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  17. Good afternoon, SK and all bloggers!

    Did Fing Fing go missing like Ah Hua, too? Tsk, tsk.... SK so bad, neglected Fing Fing for so long and now getting him a new pal to repent?

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    1. I was wondering..... is this Julius male or female?

      Ah Boy stuffs them together in the luggage here and there, will there be no hanky panky happening inside? ;P

      Eh, is Fing Fing a he or she? If Fing Fing is a he and Julius is a she, then SK can become grandpa after this Osaka trip. But then if Fing Fing is a he and Julius is a he, too, SK will pening kepala with the gay party >.<

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    2. Or the situation might be vice verse, LOL~

      Okie, Ah Hua's yellow brain is thinking too much. Better stay straight!

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  18. Enjoy yourself in Osaka, ya!

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    1. I returned because I'd totally forgot what I wanna say about the spoiled brats *too excited to hear that Fing Fing has a new partner*

      I agree many kids nowadays are very lucky and they don't know how to be grateful for their easy life. Mine is included and I've been trying the hardest so that she won't be ignorant about it.

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    2. MM tends to spoil the kids, but I'm a tough mom. Hardly give in to their request for toys, only allow them to buy reading materials.

      Of course, I sometimes rewards them with their favourite food like fast food or Japanese food ;)

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  19. OSAKA...happy holiday SK, happy holiday to Fing Fing and Julius too. Best giler pergi OSAKA....

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    1. So where you find Julius monkey from? McD Happy Meal ka? Or both Fing Fing and Julius met at McD when daddy is busy lining up to get Happy Meal...hehehe

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    2. I wonder why you get Fing Fing a partner to OSAKA eh? Or yourself got a partner too, scared Fing Fing gets lonely right during your OSAKA trip....most probably. But after all, you are a good daddy, at least you get him a partner or else Fing Fing will get bored while you enjoying your Japan trip.

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    3. Time flies very fast, realised you mentioned before that you are going to Japan again, see right now you're in Japan again. Good for you SK! Enjoy your trip till the max yeah.

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    4. Pretty cold weather there right now. I guess you're enjoying yourself at Disneyland

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    5. Probably this time got chance to visit Mt Fuji.

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  20. Recently, Calvin attend extra class organized by his kindergarten. One of his friend - a girl just came back from a holiday.She brought some souvenirs back for her 6yo friends only. Not many attended the extra class, so all she knew is my son and another 2 more friends whom is the same age. I'm really surprise that nowadays, kids are so lucky. This 6yo girl by the name Yee Hui, gave a Disneyland keychain for my son. Yee Hui just back came back from her Osaka holiday. Parents if can or affordable ones always giving them the very best we can and give them the best holiday experience right?

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    1. Yee Hui is the best student in 6yo class. So I think this is the promise from her parents to her. Lucky girl.

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    2. From here, I advice my son too. I asked him to learn from her, be a good boy in school and at home. I always take good examples to encourage my son. Kids love to be praise, we do that but not too much. I will scold him too if he did anything wrong. No one dare to scold except me. hehehe....

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    1. Fing Fing post was here since 10th Dec....

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    2. I can't sleep yet so I'm coming back here to see who is talking right now....Halo anyone is here???

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  22. So now you are in osaka? So rich can go japan haha wow fing fing got a playmate so he won't feel lonely haha haapy holidays to you sk!

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  23. Do update us on your osaka trip when you come back

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  24. Manayk susah pasal kids topic.

    everyone will have their own opinion. But how to deal with own kids will see each parents la. Some will not spare the rotan . some will talk to the kids. But it will also depending on the kids . some will listen and then forget..talk again and again and forgot. some will listen then purposely test the boundary.

    oh well...each will have their own method in dealing with their own kid

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  25. Correct, every kids are different too. They have different behaviors for the parents to handle. Not all kids like rotan. Parents are always be there to advice and keep advice until "hao sui dou kon"

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  26. Osaka is a my dream place. Don't know when I can go to Osaka like you . I have many Japanese friends in Osaka. Our head quarter is in OSAKA.

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    1. Probably you can aim for a training there. What about 6months training?

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