30.05.2010 | 將心比心

仍然好懷恨舊年某日病假, 大老細得罪個客, 無啦啦燒到我搭嚟, 毫無諒解之心仲聲大夾惡打畀我, 病咗都要我搵個客搞掂件事.. 我覺得好唔尊重, 好唔合理, 好過份!! 整件事令我非常之鄙視佢.. 好彩兩個月後佢另謀高就, 如果唔係怕且都要帶住面具同佢共事喇..

坦白講, 我幾抗拒放假或工作以外, 有人打電話畀我講工作上嘅嘢.. 同事還好, 都係一句起兩句止求證啲嘢, 可以接受.. 老細或客戶就唔好喇, 通常都係有事要你做或解決, 死人冧樓話要就要.. 將心比心吖, 有邊個鐘意被打擾架?? 所以如果知道同事/老細/客戶放假, 我絕對唔想破壞人哋個mood囉..

工作超過十年, 我越嚟越重視工作以外嘅私人空間.. 踏出公司, 我就唔希望同工作有任何瓜葛.. 呢啲基本上嘅尊重, 但係偏偏就有好多人忽視, 悲哉..i still remember on a sick day last year, my new boss stirred up a storm in a teacup with a client and get me involved for no reason.. without any sympathy he called me up and wanted me to settle things with the client even if i was sick.. i think he was very unreasonable, unrespectful and a piss-off!! since then i really despised him, but luckily he got another offer two months later, else i guess i'm now wearing a mask to work together with him..

frankly, i am quite reluctant to calls on work while i'm on leave or outside working hours.. peers are fine since they normally just need a quick one to clarify things, acceptable.. but not bosses or clients, who calls you normally because they need you to do or resolve something within short timeframe.. put yourself into shoes of others, i guess nobody likes to be disturbed right?? that is why if i knew colleagues/ bosses/ clients out of office, i would not like to spoil their holiday mood at all..

been working for more than 10 years now, and found myself seeing personal life outside work more importantly.. out of office, i do not hope to get into anything about work.. but regret to say, this simple and basic respect is normally being ignored by many, how sad..