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05.02.2009 | 放眼向前

今日應該算係我工作咁多年以嚟, 最晴天霹靂, 最沉重嘅一日.. 呢件事情嘅發生, 對我嚟講, 都有一定程度嘅影響.. 不過眼前仲有好長一段路要行, 應該要學識向前看呢個道理..

某同事同我講咗一番話: 「人去得越高, 就會見得越多睇得越遠, 高處不勝寒, 點樣都要做好本份, 懂得去保護自己」.. 另外, 某個朋友同樣忠告我話: 「工作同生活要識得分開處理, 唔好將彼此融入彼此之間, 糾纏不清係一個好難解嘅困局」.. 多謝佢哋嘅忠言..i can say that ever since i started to work, today is the most shocking and most upset day for me indeed.. the incident that happened, to me, did bring me a certain degree of impact.. anyway, i still have a long way in front of me, the most important thing now is to look ahead..

a colleague of mine told me: "the higher you go, the wider and the more you will see, at this position you just gotta do the right things first, and also learn to protect yourself".. also, another friend of mine advised: "life and work must be separated and never be mingled together, if they do then it would be a tough strand".. thanks them for the sincere and wise advices..
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13 comments:

  1. 向前看之余,也许也要向前走...

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  2. Not sure exactly what happened, but I'm agreed that we gotta know how to protect ourselves. Since it happened, no point to think so much.

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  3. 人不為己,天藷地滅。
    適當是要保護自己。
    沒有了自己,大局也沒有意義。
    as long as we don't hurt others .....

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  4. Dude, sound like you just got backstab thingy... are you okay? Although there is an impact... just learnt the lesson and move forward ... just need to be careful in the future... :)

    Everybody will learn his or her lesson... so don't be so upset... move on eh!

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  5. Looks like you've been having a not so pleasant week! Take a good break this weekend. Recharge and charge back into next week.

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  6. 职场如战场。恐怖啊。。
    自我保护才不会被人陷害。

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  7. 不僅是工作,人生就是這樣,目光放遠些,就是藍天白云。。。 消沉一會兒就好啦,明早起來所謂的沉重的一天,已是歷史咯!

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  8. Learn from your lesson, maybe is a good time to see who is the good and bad guy.

    Hope you are ok. Need advise just MSN me.

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  9. Shinji:
    你所得對, 向前看也要向前走, 一路上你會有很多捨取得失, 這就是人生經驗啊~~

    K|E|E|N|Y|E|E:
    yes, it has already happened and nothing can be done anymore.. what's more important is now and the future, always love ourselves the most and nothing else.. :)

    Danny:
    係嘅, 呢啲嘢真係需要經驗嘅累積.. 咁我從來都唔會去傷害人嘅, 最緊要係做好自己, 行得正企得正, 同埋適當時候做出適當行動..

    TZ:
    not me actually, but it's another colleague of mine whom i have been quite close with.. yeah, and that is another thing i have gotta learn from this incident..
    i am moving forward, but perhaps with more load on my shoulders now.. :)

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  10. Jonzz:
    yes, have been quite unhappy for these few days because of a single project, and that has gone to the climax the day before yesterday.. likewise, let's recharge ourselves during this long weekend, don't look back but look ahead, we still have a long way to walk.. kanbate!!

    wayne:
    說得對, 而且去得越高就會看到越多東西.. 保護自己真的是必要的, 至少小心行事才不會被傷害.. 不過最重要還是工作和生活要懂得分開.. :)

    csws:
    人生起起落落總是在所難免, 如何把情緒處理得乾淨利落, 和人生經歷有著莫大的關係.. 所以我也同意, 把目光放遠, 看的不只是現在而是遠方.. 如果能未卜先知, 那就更好啦, 至少可以逢凶化吉, 哈哈!!

    Lifebook:
    yes, this is one good lesson, though i am not the victim but i must learn to protect cos you just do not know what is going to happen next.. looks like you have lots of tricks for all these politics huh?? hmmm, i shall MSN you then, hehe~~

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  11. we mus always protect ourselves...as much as possible have everything in b/w

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  12. 工作只是人生的一部份 另看得太重
    如Danny所说 因而沒有了自己,大局也沒有意義。btw 對的時候發飆 是必要的 哈哈...

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  13. Bengbeng:
    yeah that is true, anyway this is actually beyond what black & white can protect.. well, this is to do with experience and how you see and handle relationship :)

    tagnan:
    對, 我現在就是可以把工作和生活儘量分開來處理, 至於說沒了自己大局也沒有意義, 都幾深囉這個道理, 你明啊?? 哈哈..

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