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18.11.2009 | 不愛曝光

曾經有個朋友話, 我寫嘅題材已經逐漸趨向「大眾化」, 唔似得以前咁帶有私人情感..

係架, 我覺得一旦有嘢寫上去, 就一定會有人睇(包括你老闆在內!!), 就代表你已經赤裸裸地向世界表白自己.. 而當越多人睇嘅時候, 我就覺得唔好去得太深入同太私隱, 唔好太高姿態, 唔好涉及太敏感嘅話題囉.. 所以我覺得應該點到即止有所保留, 始終呢個所謂嘅私人部落格, 其實係處於一個大眾平台上..

可能大家唔認同, 話到底都係我自己嘅風格啫.. 其實越係私隱嘅blog我越係鐘意睇, 因為八卦係人嘅本性嘛, 哈哈~~ :Da friend told me previously that the topics i'm writing in my blog has gone more and more "common interest" now, unlike my older posts that touches a little more on my personal feelings and emotions..

well, i guess he was right, because i think as long as you have something posted, there will be people who read (including your boss!!), and that means you have already exposed yourself to the world.. when there are more and more people reading your blog, i would rather not go too deep into details and be too personal, don't be loud, and of course avoid talking about sensitive issues.. hence, i think being moderately and wittily reserved would be the best, we have to know that despite this is our personal blog, it is still sitting on a public platform..

you might not agree on this, but this is my style of blogging anyway.. actually i like to read very personal posts, well, many of us (by nature) loves gossips right?? hahaha~~ :D
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55 comments:

  1. 哗!!!第一次抢到一楼!!这么幸运,我可以去买万字票啦!!哈哈!!

    Well, 我是你老友,当然是喜欢看你私人的feelings啦!可是,又是明白的,我也不爱把自己太私人的事放在blog上。你有没有发觉,我的blog从来没有我老公的照片?!哈哈!我极至尊重他人私隐,包括我老公!!

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  2. ohhhh i didnt read ur past entries wor...not sure how personal they were....might check it later hehehh....and i love gossips....come on, SHARE!!!!! plzzzz hehhehe

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  3. Love gossips but not interested in posting personal stuffs up..

    End up when more people are like that... no more gossips lor! NOOOOOO!

    :P

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  4. 赞同拉,有时候很难避免的情况:p

    反正follow your feeling,想怎么样写,就写:)

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  5. 在你家都没八卦到什么的。你以前写的比较八卦点啦。

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  6. I don't delve into personal stuff too when I blog..although I know it's something that gets readers attention.

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  7. hahaha... yaya... agree with that..
    now if I want to write about emo/personal/complain stuff, i need to think twice because even my manager is reading my blog.. wtf.. =.="

    but i also like to read blogs with more personal stuff.. kekeke.. it's like hmmm.. dont know how to say la.. but u know what i mean.. hahaha...

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  8. OK wor...very interesting ar your blog :)

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  9. i think it's okay to go personal, but to a certain extent. because that pretty much personalise your blog. who would wanna read about common facts that could be googled right?

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  10. i also like to read other ppl's personal stuff, very 38 of me *blushed*

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  11. 别太隐瞒, 公开才好看.
    狗仔队都挖八卦新闻啦.

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  12. Same here bro. I love to mix and match what I post. I try not to get to personal. :D

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  13. 要私隱就上Facebook啦!

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  14. 乜以前好中意写私人感情咩?我唔觉既?系咯,人就系好犯贱既,当你有咁上下知名度,就会觉得要低调。。个道理就好似D艺人咁。

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  15. 贊成!所以我有兩個blog,一個公開,一個全面封鎖。不過大多數都會update公開嗰個,因爲我本身冇乜秘密,而且事冇不可對人言呀嘛!

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  16. 雪芬:
    哈哈, 第一個comment又怎樣?? 我又沒有給獎品的, 哈哈!! 你要做第一個, 那我以後這個時候post囉.. 對啦, 不要把太多私人東西搬上去囉, 除非你老公很樂意你把他公諸於世啦.. 不要講別人, 其實我們把自己的樣子放上去都算不錯喇, right??

    manglish:
    haha, not all about personal feelings in my older posts lah, maybe just a handful only, you'd have to see if you're lucky during your random reading later.. hmmm, no more gossips here, maybe can i gossip about you?? :p

    ladyviral:
    haha, though there might be such possibility, but i think there are a lot of people out there who are writing more personal stuffs in their blogs.. but that is definitely not including me :)

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  17. summer:
    你對啦, 其實有時候也會寫的, 只是我只是蜻蜓點水這樣囉, 告訴一點不告訴一點囉, 反正不要通通給人知道就好了.. :)

    Chin Weng 茶先生:
    哈哈, 我已經講了嘛, 我的style換了, 不要再那麼八卦了.. 我這個blog就只有告訴你我吃了甚麼/做了甚麼/去了哪裡, 你要看見我心深處?? 呵呵, 應該很難得.. :p

    Mei Teng:
    yeah, unless you are really a care-free person and would like to share with people.. else, i think it's better not to do so, it might cause trouble we might not know :)

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  18. ~dolly~:
    yalah, as long as you are posting something, everyone will have a chance to read, including your bosses!! so better be wise, and if you think it would cause problem, please stop!! yalah, of course i know what you mean.. like to read people's personal stuff out of curiosity mah, but on the other hand don't want to expose yourself.. right?? i think this is common lah.. :)

    uLi.佑莉:
    haha, then i am very happy, means you like the happy happy style lor.. :D

    Medie007:
    haha, of course i'm talking about personalised but to an extent.. all my posts are original creation, i've never googled and then copy & paste anything, perhaps only youtube i guess.. hahaha!!

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  19. the happy go lucky one:
    yalor, i also very 38 like to read your "personal" posts lor, but too bad you've greatly reduced your production recently, what a waste!!

    单身汉:
    呵呵, 我又沒有甚麼新聞價值, 狗仔隊不會花時間和精力在我身上喇.. 其實太過公開沒有神秘感, 別人不會要八卦囉..

    Tekkaus:
    yeah, i can see that you wrote lots of things but just never anything too personal.. well, no problem at all, i still enjoy reading your posts.. :)

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  20. khengsiong:
    哈哈, FB仲衰啦, FB透明度比起Blogger仲高啊..

    Rebecca Kheng:
    咁又唔係, 係偶然間會寫一寫啫, 不過當時你應該仲未睇我嗰blog囉.. 哈哈, 竟然畀你一眼睇穿我心內話添, 咪就係人怕出名豬怕肥咁簡單嘅道理囉.. 哈哈!! 你都小心啲喎~~ :p

    海市蜃樓:
    哈哈, 你個全面封鎖blog係得你自己同一啲 密友睇?? 嘩, 我都很好奇想睇喎, 哈哈!! 我就絕對唔會有兩個blog喇, 一個公諸於世, 一個埋藏心底啦.. :)

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  21. Hey! First time visiting your blog. Very interesting that you have dual languages! Too bad I can only read one of them. :P I also love gossips! Just so you know. :)

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  22. It's all a matter of individuality and choice and commonsense. Whatever we blog will have its own following. though views that are too personal or controversial may have their repercussions, if not immediate, later on.

    People have been terminated from service due to their blogs.

    For me, my aim is just to share info that I think others would enjoy reading (or not). Oh well..

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  23. 你一路来读写得很大众口味呢!

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  24. 哈哈哈。。。那不是“偷窥”咩?
    我也很喜欢看别人写内心的话咯!
    所以你应该大方写出来,爆一下料,我们也很好奇去看的。。哈哈哈 !!

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  25. 我這個人暫時沒什么大的秘密
    最近的題材也是超大眾化的
    哈哈

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  26. i think i have gone too personal too. time for me to hold back

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  27. iamthewitch:
    welcome and thanks for dropping by.. hmmm, why not take this chance to learn another language from the other one?? haha~~ :)

    HappySurfer:
    yeah, that is why we have to keep ourselves moderate, in this public platform.. yupe, i notice you actually have lots of posts in a day, like you have unlimited ideas of what to blog about.. that i really have to admire, sometimes i really have no idea what to write about, and just sitting there scrathing head.. :p

    Wois:
    呵呵, 對囉, 我的blog和你的blog真的可以說得上是天淵之別囉.. 我大眾化, 你私人化, 哈哈!!

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  28. 发白日梦^^:
    哈哈, 如果你說偷窺, 那我們全部都應該是偷窺漢了吧?? 我以前有寫一些內心話啊, 你去找回來看吧, 看你有沒有本事找得回囉.. :p

    十六夜真人:
    沒有秘密的人才叫做開心, 其實有一個大眾化的blog也未必好呀, 至少帶給大家歡樂嘛.. 我們也是很偉大的~~ :p

    Bengbeng:
    haha, not really, i don't think your posts are too deeply personal.. maybe Benghui is, hahaha!! :)

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  29. 年轻人中意八卦,
    SK都係年轻人咯 :)

    ngam ngam看报纸,lap眼见到KK既相,
    仲以为你上报纸tim... 嘻嘻 :p

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  30. variety makes it more interesting..

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  31. haha~ yea... keep ur own privacy inside ur tummy will be much more better

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  32. chrisiew:
    邊個話淨係年輕人鐘意八卦呢?? 你當阿三姑同阿六婆唔係人?? 哈哈.. 嘩, 咁都畀你見到我個「孖生兄弟」?? 真係夠運囉你, 快快去買toto啦~~

    wenn:
    yes, i would think so, more variety will make the blog livelier and not so dull.. :)

    L²:
    hehe, not only keeping them in my tummy, i also got a lot inside my love-handles.. hahahaha!!! :D

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  33. There is no right or wrong. It is your blog anyway. Something can be personal but most best to keep private and confine in company of friends.

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  34. 哈哈~
    的确是要有所保留,点到即止~

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  35. I do also think it is better to be less personal on a public platform...

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  36. “人怕出名,猪怕肥”,呢句真係金石良言!所以,曝光率越高嘅人越需要保持低调,费事树大招风,惹麻烦啦!哈哈!

    SK,好听一句叫“好奇”,严重嘅话就係“八挂”,哈哈!平时就係因为生活苦闷,所以先至有咁多8仔8女诸事八挂。你都唔算八通街囉!你只不过钟意同人分享你嘅心得同埋独家新闻啫!哈哈!

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  37. Ha ha ha, agree.....a little gossips to spice things up! LOL!

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  38. 話明全面封鎖梗系冇人可以睇啦,密友都冇得傾囖。

    我想用文字將它發洩出嚟,起碼死後(到時blogger沒折埋話)如果有緣人睇到都知道我心中其實系點諗。

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  39. LEon:
    yeah, i agree there's no right or wrong, it's the way you wish to express yourself.. of course for me, i'd try to be a little reserved, because i'm not going to exposed myself totally :p

    LAURENCE:
    對啊, 要不然就給人看光了嘛, 這樣就不矜貴了嘛!! 哈哈~~ :D

    Grass:
    yes, traps are everywhere in the internet, we really gotta be very vigilant, and the first thing to do is to protect ourselves.. :)

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  40. edward:
    咁我又唔係咁出名, 只不過小市民一個啫.. 不過小市民都係怕樹大招風嘅, 所以寧願低調處事好喇.. 哈哈, 我話係"八卦"就講到明係"過份地好奇"啦, 我知大家都係咁嘅, 唔駛扮嘢囉, 呵呵!! 我係鐘意八卦人哋啲嘢, 但係絕對唔會係唱通街嗰個囉, 放心, 人哋嘅事, 我會尊重私隱嘅~~ :)

    Pete:
    hahaha, i think when you say that, you meant "lots of" gossips to spice up?? :p

    海市蜃樓:
    哈哈!! 嘩, 咁呢個全面封鎖blog應該好值得一睇囉.. 真係得你自己睇自己發泄, 一定好多"八卦嘢"喇~~~ 我願意做嗰個有緣人啊, 哈哈!! :D

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  41. 正一死八公!等我過咗身報夢話你知密碼。哈哈哈...

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  42. 我也是蛮爱到人家的部落格八卦下人家的心事~哈

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  43. at first I was too hesitant to write anything personal in my blog but i eventually grew fond of it. It has become my outlet and also I don't fully expose important details that must be kept. Simply relating it to some matters. I think it depends also if you feel comfortable with your community.

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  44. 海市蜃樓:
    呵呵, 我都話咗八卦係我嘅天性咯.. 好啦, 就約定你報夢我知啦, 哇哈哈哈哈哈!! :D

    Florence:
    呵呵, 你也喜歡去"關心"人家的心事?? 這間接代表甚麼呢?? 嘻嘻嘻~~ :p

    Ayie:
    yah, i think it's okay to occassionally talk about your personal stuffs, but just to a certain extent not to totally exposed.. hahaha, so you mean you go more and more personal now?? :p

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  45. Know exactlt what you mean! A bit too difficult to write terribly personal things when your friends read the blog :)

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  46. Agreed, being too personal isn't good for blogger.

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  47. savante:
    yeah it's just too something to expose to much personal things.. not only friends, but remember colleagues and even your boss!! haha..

    KY:
    yeah, don't get too personal on the blog.. but you can always do that for me in private, i'll be a good listener, hahaha!!

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  48. not really, just part of my personal which i think is ok to share. Nothing that can complicate my life. hehe

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  49. You see, you see? All of you bloggers put your nice face up there on your blogs! How to write personal posts? No way!!

    I'm so smart! Don't reveal my face! I can go as personal as I like! Hehe

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  50. But nowadays cannot oredy, cos too many bloggers see my face already when they met up with me. Oh no! no! no!

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  51. Anyway, I think it's OK not to delve too personal, becoz sometimes I think we should respect other people's private lives.

    Besides, I think reading about other people's personal lives are not going to help me much and I can make better use of my time!

    So I think I still prefer blogs which can give me some benefits, unlike this blog here.

    Haha, OK, just kidding on that last part! LOL!

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  52. Actually I have never read your very old posts, OK one fine day when I have absolutely nothing to do, I will go over them, then I will know more about SK! Haha

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  53. Ayie:
    yeah, i don't think i've seen too much personal things elsewhere.. most of the bloggers would either protect those posts or not even share them out to public.. so i just gotta know you have a lovely family, and expecting a new member.. that's something happy to share.. :)

    foongpc:
    hahaha, yes we are bound by our huge photos we posted and that is why we really have to be moderate and not to exposed to much personal stuffs.. and for your case, though only a Jing Jing photo, but i guess more and more bloggers have really see you in person.. well, as i say, the more connection you have with others, be it you try to be open or obscure, as long as you've landed in this public platform, you are already slowly exposing yourself.. hahaha!! so i'd rather be curious when we will be meeting the real Foong Pak Choy :p

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  54. SK first time here, very interesting to see two languages must be spending lots of time in translation. Just right timing to help me bridge the gap and learning Chinese right now. Melayu cakap 'OCBC' - Orang China Bukan China lah. Xiexie ക

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  55. Bananaz:
    hey thanks for dropping by!! haha, great that you can learn Chinese from here huh?? well, rather say translation, i would say i just write in two languages, because i have what i wanted to tell in my mind.. so not really spending lots of time in doing this.. :)

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